Saturday, April 9, 2011

LOVE ME BECAUSE OF ME

He loves me.
It is easy to love me.
I am not perfect, but what is not to love about me.
I am all about him. I love him because of him.
It is what we do.
We love them,
we love them because of them,
not because of us.
And they love us not because of us, but because of them.
We make them feel good,
we make them feel great,
we encourage them,
we inspire them,
we give ourselves,
we pleasure them,
we care about them,
we take care about them,
we just care too much about them,
their dreams,
their hopes,
their ideas,
their interests,
their careers,
 their needs,
their wants,
their desires,
their friends,
their games,
their lives,
their believes.
I want him to be happy,
I want him to be comfortable,
I want him to achieve his dreams,
I want him to succeed,
I want him to feel loved,
I want him to feel at home,
I want him to be the best,
I want him to be satisfied.
Him, him. him, all about him.
That's why he loves me.
Is it hard to love me?!
I feel sometimes it is all about them and they love the way we make them feel, they love the way they are loved, they love the way they are with us.
What about us?!
What do you know about me?!
About my dreams,
about my needs, a
bout my life,
about my wants,
about my hopes,
about my believes?!

Can you love me because of me not because of how I make you feel?!

They love ourselves with us.
Can they love us because of us?!

DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS...

You like him!

Great!

BUT.........

If it is a "but",
you have to stop and think about it.
I know you have been looking for so long and you want to find him, finally,
and you are tired of looking,
you are sick of dating,
and you are about to give up on relationship,
but....

do not settle for less.

Do not settle for him if he is not what you are looking for.
Just think if he can give you what you want.
He might be cute and hot and etc.
Butask yourself:
Can he give you what you want?!
And if he can not,
why bother?!
Why waste your time again?!
Why settle for less?!
You won't be happy.
You like him, so what?!
You will like again,
you will, you did before, you will do it again.
Do not settle just because you like him, or just because you are tired of looking, or just because you are getting old.
You deserve to be happy.
You deserve to find someone who will appreciate you and love you.
You deserve to love and to be loved and to find someone who will care about your dreams and about your wants, and how to make you happy.

HUNTERS AND PRAYS!

Men are hunters.
It is in their blood.
They love to chase,
they love to hunt,
they love to win.

It is their nature.
They need excitement,
they need fight,
they need war,
they need to prove their power,
they need to show their skills,
they want the best pray,
they want to brag about it,
they want to be the best.

Braver men go for a pray that gives them a challenge,
that make them to think,
to use their skills,
to be better,
faster,
stronger,
more experienced.

Hunting means games. Hunting means skills. Hunting means no rest. Hunting means a war. Hunting means someone looses. Hunting means to play.

Do you want to be his easy pray?! Do you want to be a challenge?!

Endless games...
Endless hunt?!

OUR PERFECT CREATIONS........

Girls! We create them.
To fall in love takes a man we like plus his basic info plus our imagination, and we are in love.
We are falling in love with our own creation.
And we fall out of love as soon as we realize that the man we are with not a man we are in love with.
Does it make sense?!
Think about it.
We love words,
we love with our ears,
they love with their eyes.
We take their words (they are so talkative sometimes, it is like they read the same books in school),
we add our dreams
and here we go - it is a perfect man we were looking for,
we are falling for our own creation.

We should stop it.
I understand we want to love, we are ready to love, we have so many saved feelings that are fulfilling us and ready to explode, but do not give it to a guy who doesn't deserve it.
I mean I know we have been looking for so long for this perfect guy, but is he the one, is he really this guy you were looking for or he is your own desired wanted creation.
Are you really in love with him?!
Just think about it.

ENDLESS GAMES?!?!?!?

Why can't we honestly, openly, sincerely admit to each other how we feel?
Why can't we tell each other what we want?
Why can't we picture our future together?!
Why can't we let our guard down?!
Why can't we let all our fears go?!
Why can't we just feel for each other?!
Why can't we break our walls together that separate us?!
Why can't we be with each other on a different, not discovered before level?!
Together, me and you........
And we do not know what gonna happen.......
No one knows......
But it is so nice to feel and not to be scared,
it is so wonderful to put your guard down and let it be.....
and enjoy,
and dream,
and open up,
and let love in,
not to hold anything,
and let everything go........

Tomorrow might never come.........

So lets feel today,
lets dream today,
lets love today,
lets open up our hearts,
lets not be scared to say what we feel,
what we want,
what we dream about.

I want you.................

Do you want me as much as I want you?!

Thursday, April 7, 2011

PAIN SWEET PAIN......

We are meeting people, we are dating, we are jumping into relationships, we are breaking up, we are getting hurt again and again, and as soon as we find someone we are interested in, someone we like, we are ready to jump again. "To jump" to be hurt!? To jump to feel usual pain after!? Less pain!? Stronger pain!? More tears!? Less!? WIll this pain ever stop!? Should we stop jumping!? Should we stop feeling!? Should we lock our hearts!? Should we stop believing!? Should we stop loving!? Should we stop hoping?!