We can defriend (unfriend) people, what if we could unfuck people or even better - unlove people.
Imagine "unlove" people..... So we can erase some pain from our memories......
I saw an ad online: speed dating on sale - pay only $17. It means you have a chance to meet "your Mr. Right" on sale. What a beautiful story to tell your kids. LOL! I met your dad on sale for $17.00 during the speed dating. But if you think about the idea - sometimes 5 minutes it is all you need to understand if you want this person or not.
People come to our lives for a minute or 10, for a day or two, for a year or forever........ And sometimes impact that "5 minute person or one day person does is much more powerful than a person who is in your live for 10 years.
It is so easy to talk to strangers...... On a plane, on a train, online........ You are not scared to be judged, or blamed, or hated, or loved..... You are who you are. You are pure and innocent sometimes and so open telling your life story - no lies, just a naked truth (or a total lie)...... And it is so easy to say everything that you could not say before......... We are opening up our hearts and showing our souls to someone we have never met before and will never meet again. And after that we go back living a lie, hiding the truth, scared to be hurt, scared to love and be loved, avoiding pain, not letting people in our hearts and souls until next stranger comes into our live for a moment.
We are looking "for the one".... We do not know what he looks like, what he likes, what makes him the way he is, what is he dreaming about, what he likes for breakfast, we do not know the smell of his skin, size of his shoes, color of his hair, what kind of books he reads, what kind of music he listens, but we are looking for him, we are dating, we are having relationships, we get close to people, intimate with people, hoping and looking, selecting, dreaming, going through life, comparing, getting hurt and hurting others in the order to find just one person, our person. It takes one person to be happy, it takes one person to stop this search.......
Without loving ourselves, we can not love others, we can not give love.....
What if you are my "the one" and i am not yours.............
What if I am "yours" "the One", and you are not mine.......
I want to show you the "worst" of me at first, and if you can handle it, I will show you "my best"....
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Every so often you meet someone special, perhaps at a beautiful place near the beach, and you know immediately you can be yourself on every setting.
You don't tell each other everything just yet, but suddenly you are interested. You don't have to be the worst of you, or be
an ideal you. You can just be you, and you hope the search is over
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