BREAK UPS............
My girlfriend is going through a break up. God, she is going through hell, honestly. I feel her pain.
Why do we do it to ourselves?
It is only our choice to make it painful or painless. She chose the most difficult way out.
Why? Are we used to pain? Are we enjoying feeling miserable?! She locked herself at home and going through piles of pictures together, videos, their favorite songs, letters, emails.... so she is totally torturing herself covering everything with tears......
I can not stand it and I want to help so badly. But I can not make a choice for her.
Stop it! It is all I can say. He is gone! He left! It is over! If he doesn't appreciate what he has or had, let him go, he is not a right person for you.
Please, stop looking at his pics, remembering those "snuggle days", vacations together,
it is past,
it is memory,
it is over.
Through away all pictures, or save them in a folder you will never find, pack everything in a box and seal it,
and through it,
or put it in a storage,
or do whatever - just not to see it!
Move furniture, dye your hair, go to new places, meet friends that you haven't seen for a while or make new friends, do something different, do not go to yours favorite places where you used to go together, do something new that you have never done together before, or what he never wanted to do.
Life is not over, only one chapter is ended.
Learn your lesson and move on!
It doesn't matter what he thinks, what he does, how he handles it, it is not your problem, not your worries,
he is your past.
Stop going back and rethinking what you did wrong, it just didn't work out.
Life is not over!
And you will love again, and laugh again, and you will be happy!
We all learn on our own mistakes! Move on!
Life is too short, let enjoy every moment of it!
Why do we do it to ourselves?
It is only our choice to make it painful or painless. She chose the most difficult way out.
Why? Are we used to pain? Are we enjoying feeling miserable?! She locked herself at home and going through piles of pictures together, videos, their favorite songs, letters, emails.... so she is totally torturing herself covering everything with tears......
I can not stand it and I want to help so badly. But I can not make a choice for her.
Stop it! It is all I can say. He is gone! He left! It is over! If he doesn't appreciate what he has or had, let him go, he is not a right person for you.
Please, stop looking at his pics, remembering those "snuggle days", vacations together,
it is past,
it is memory,
it is over.
Through away all pictures, or save them in a folder you will never find, pack everything in a box and seal it,
and through it,
or put it in a storage,
or do whatever - just not to see it!
Move furniture, dye your hair, go to new places, meet friends that you haven't seen for a while or make new friends, do something different, do not go to yours favorite places where you used to go together, do something new that you have never done together before, or what he never wanted to do.
Life is not over, only one chapter is ended.
Learn your lesson and move on!
It doesn't matter what he thinks, what he does, how he handles it, it is not your problem, not your worries,
he is your past.
Stop going back and rethinking what you did wrong, it just didn't work out.
Life is not over!
And you will love again, and laugh again, and you will be happy!
We all learn on our own mistakes! Move on!
Life is too short, let enjoy every moment of it!
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