YOU FIND IT WHEN YOU ARE NOT LOOKING......

Have you ever noticed that it is so easy to meet people when we are not waiting, hoping, looking....

We are on the plane looking tired, no make up, our hair is in a ponytail, we are focused doing some work on our laptop, and here he is.......
sitting next to us.......
almost a dream.

We are in the grocery store and our shopping cart filled with toilet paper, tampons, romantic movies, a bottle of wine and ice cream, and here he is.....
almost a dream in the line in front of us.

We are in a laundry room putting our panties in a dryer, in our sweatpants, sweatshirt and messy hair, and..........
here he is....
carrying a basket of his dirties......
almost a dream.....

Have you realized when we are with someone, when we are involved with someone, we meet people all the time, because we are not looking, because we are happy, because we have a different energy and people are attracted to us.
People are attracted to our energy and our happiness.
We look different when we are not looking.
Have you ever heard a comment that "you smell like sex",
yes,
we do smell like sex when we have someone, we smell like sex, because we have sex, because we are happy.
It is like a special spell on us when we are not looking that attracts men, special scent... And when we are looking it is like we have a huge sign on our forehead that pushes men away.

So what should we do?!
Stop looking when we are looking, and start looking when we are not looking?!
I think, we should just stop waiting for a miracle to happen,
it will happen,
it will come,
it will  find us,
or we will accidentally find it.